At the welcome ceremony for the freshmen, she finally got up the courage to dance
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It’s harder to be strong than beautiful
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Because we have not been loved honestly and without reservation, we will doubt whether we are worthy of being loved all our lives
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There is also a terrible sequela, that is, “lack of love”
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Social phobia stems from my self-consciousness that I am not good-looking, but my friends at that time told me that the only way to overcome it is to “fight poison with poison”
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While strengths and advantages bring benefits to you, they will certainly make you confident
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Many of us have low self-esteem because of the lack of affirmation and encouragement from the outside world
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Because got a lot of praise, this kind of praise let me find: originally I really have light
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In high school, she was a girl who loved dancing very much, but she was discriminated by her appearance for a long time
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The atmosphere was high and the audience was boiling
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In fact, I was more confident when I met him
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She was called “pig” by the little boys
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She confessed to the boy she liked
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But what she said from the bottom of her heart was: get love like everyone else
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Finding a good love and running a good relationship can really help us go back to childhood and cure some of our injuries
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When I saw him, I was very skillful in painting, and I was no longer shy to reveal myself
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Seeing her, it’s really like seeing yourself
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So is Jiang Meilai, the heroine of the play
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It is possible to create a new self every day by opening the shadow of childhood and adolescence and breaking the obsession with the past
Is life completely better after plastic surgery? It seems that there is no imagination of “elation”
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But after reading Jiang Meilai’s story, I feel that although self-confidence is related to appearance, it is more about mind
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Yi Xin, your warm heart girl who deserves to be owned, is selling well in the new book “keep all time changing and beautiful”
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You and I may not be so lucky, but we still need to do a good job in this lesson: build self-confidence and believe that we are worthy of being loved
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I have written many ways to build self-confidence before, including our heroine Jiang Meilai’s attempt to become beautiful
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She was already a slim girl in her back
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I will find all kinds of reasons to escape
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I met my friends in July and talked about my social phobia
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She also won the first place in the exam
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Later, she finally succeeded in losing weight, with long hair
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Although she is very good-looking, her eyes are still timid and timid; she is still envious of beautiful natural beauties; she is afraid that her “black history” will be picked out every day; she still thinks that the eyes and whispers coming from the crowd are because she is too ugly
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Also in such despair, she said that her wish is just to be an ordinary person, an ordinary person who will not be paid extra attention to and attacked by others
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It’s incredible that everyone doesn’t believe that I have social phobia, but I really don’t like meeting strangers, especially when meeting strangers
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Only when you force yourself to see more people, can you find the shining point in yourself: the shining point comes from different places, and different places are easy to develop into strengths and advantages
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Even if I jump well, I have no chance to show it
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She said to me: meet a good lover, will make you more brilliant and beautiful
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This is a lesson that needs to be overcome with one’s whole life: get out of the cage and bondage of the past, and fall in love with the better self in the mirror
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Another way to build self-confidence is to find the same kind
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The boy’s first reaction was “angry” and then called her “Orc”: after this confession, she was ridiculed by countless people and fell into a worse situation
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Fortunately, she met a very good man
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When I was young, I expected praise from my parents, but now I wait
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Before that, I didn’t know how to make up, and I often painted blind
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This is more important than weight loss, make-up, cosmetic surgery, because the most moving, in fact, is the light in your eyes
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Because she was fighting with these hateful little boys, she suffered more terrible campus violence and was blocked in the toilet, dark and desperate
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She never dared to dance in public
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What he often says is: you don’t know how much I appreciate you
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She had long hair, almost covered the whole face, still make complaints about female students Tucao: so she went to the plastic surgery as soon as she finished the college entrance examination
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Because in her heart, still lives that once because looks ugly to be ridiculed oneself
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I quietly count the time and practice in the empty field
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Source: Yixin Tongxue, the first episode of “my ID is Jiangnan beauty” which was very popular last year, was written by jianzhigan
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Because TA accepts you wholeheartedly, the parts that you once hesitated, doubted and self denied are praised and strengthened by TA over and over again, which will surely make you better
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If you can’t find such kind of fans, please at least be your own fans
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This gentle boy even paid attention to her in high school before her plastic surgery
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She stood in the middle of the stage and received cheers and applause
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Many of us girls may not need plastic surgery, just need to lose weight, skin care, make-up can reverse the ugly puberty, but even if I run away from my youth for many years, I still have the fat girl who used to feel inferior in my heart
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If we dress up and go out, you will find that there are really people who can be proud and applaud for you
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She has lived in such a state of mind for 19 years
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But after I met him, he still gave me great confidence
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The heroine Jiang Meilai was a fat girl when she was a child
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The WeChat official account: yixintongxue, knows what is @ Yi Xin’s classmate, micro-blog @ Yi Xin classmate, bean paste @ Yi Xin.
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She was very successful in cosmetic surgery and became a beautiful woman
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When I was single, I often felt very self confident with my friends and make complaints about myself
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Every day in front of the mirror practice self-confidence, tell yourself: you are particularly good! You’re great! Instead of: I’m so bad, I’m so miserable, I’m so ugly In short, while changing appearance, strengthen your heart a little bit! This is more important than anything else
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She thought she was an “ordinary person”, but she didn’t expect that she was still not
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Even though she has been reborn, she still can’t adapt to her beauty in the bottom of her heart, and still can’t stand in the crowd to appreciate, encourage and affirm
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I’m proud of you
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After listening to her, I took part in many activities and met many people, and cured my phobia immediately
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Of course, the happiest way to find the same kind is that the same kind happens to be your lover
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So she made up her mind to run and lose weight
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