Rather than feel lonely in the carnival of a group of people, it is better to harvest surprises in one’s solitude
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They have added thousands of wechat friends, but they can’t find anyone to talk to when they lose sleep late at night; They seem to have a wide range of contacts and know all kinds of great people, but no one is willing to lend a helping hand when they need help
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Three thousand casual friends are not as good as one or two confidants; Not everyone is worth being friends
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The more friends are not the better
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Don’t always waste your energy on others
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It’s better to let each other go than to be friends by force
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It can’t be reduced; If you want to resign and take the postgraduate entrance examination, she said that you have worked so long and can’t pass the examination if you want to; When you have a new boyfriend, she will comment on it and find faults..
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If you can’t provide practical benefits to others, no amount of tactful communication will help.
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She took it for granted that you were good to her; If you are slighted, she will blame you for being too cold and stingy
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There are not a few people like old Joe
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A set of friends in front of and behind
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They firmly believe that “contacts are money contacts”
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The stronger the person, the more eager he is to be alone, and the more he likes to be alone, the more powerful he tends to become
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The ability to be alone is one of the important signs of a person’s maturity
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His wife was the only one taking care of him
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As Schopenhauer wrote in the wisdom of life: social gatherings require people to make sacrifices, and the more a person has a unique personality, the harder it is to make such sacrifices
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In his opinion, the value of being alone is much greater than having dinner with many officials and celebrities
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They only consume their friends around them
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Among friends with different views, the most basic thing is congenial and not tired
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You like people to be lively, but he just wants to be quiet and alone; You like to eat snail powder
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In order not to spoil the fun of others, they still refuse to come
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True friendship is not noisy
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Contacts are not timely help, but icing on the cake
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They seem to have friends all over the world
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As the saying goes, you know who you are, but you don’t know what you want
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When you are not strong enough, all contacts are ineffective
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Such a friend may not have a bad heart, but when you are together, apart from silence, it is an awkward conversation without speculation
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As a result, they vomit in the middle of the night..
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03 low quality social intercourse is not as good as high-quality solitude
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Not all people are worthy of deep friendship
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Some people are used to being “giant babies” since childhood
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Before making friends, you must understand each other’s character
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The really powerful people never need to cater to other people’s preferences and wronged themselves to have a good relationship with others
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In order to please others, they waste a lot of time and energy in vain, but they can’t get half a word of concern from others
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Only those who are disturbed by the outside world can create their own value
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When alone, a poor man will feel all his pities, while a man with rich thoughts will only feel his rich thoughts
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Although I know a lot of fair weather friends, I found that few people take him seriously at the critical moment
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Always consume your friends
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Obviously, I don’t like the excitement, and I’m afraid that others say I’m not sociable, so I have to bite the bullet and chat with a group of unfamiliar people; Mingming didn’t finish his homework
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If the three views are too different, even getting along will become a kind of torture
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There are too many important things in life
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They enjoy high-quality solitude more than low-quality social networking
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When you get a fitness card, she laughs at your heat for three minutes
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They are close to you face to face, turn around and speak ill of you; The surface cheers you up, and the back makes you stumble and do hands and feet; You treat him as your confidant and he treats you as a fool
When you really need help, they often run faster than anyone else
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They just want to get a moment of superiority by suppressing you
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When he saw me coming, he said with emotion, “I’ve been in hospital for a few days
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It’s better to get rid of it as soon as possible
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She wants to go shopping and watch movies
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Talk and do things also need more brains
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Some people meet is luck, some people know is bad luck
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In fact, they know that the dominant factor in the social field is definitely not friendship, but fashion, interest or boredom
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Some people not only can’t bring you happiness and growth, but also often add obstacles to you
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Li Ka Shing once warned young people: when you are not strong enough and excellent enough, don’t spend too much valuable time socializing and attending all kinds of parties
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I went to see him with fruit
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Those who always spend their energy on “junk social intercourse” are either to fill their inner loneliness or to cover up their incompetence
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Finally, the exam was a mess; Obviously, they can’t drink
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As soon as his roommate called, he teamed up with him to play games
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She doesn’t care whether you have finished your work or not; She wanted to buy this and that, but refused to work hard to make money, so she regarded you as an ATM..
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Zhou Guoping’s remark hit the nail on the head: people who are keen on social networking often boast that they have many friends
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Just keep a polite distance from those who don’t get along
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She has to take you with her
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If you also have the following four kinds of “friends”, you’d better stay away as soon as possible
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People who can’t see your good friends often worship strangers from afar, but envy their friends around us, so we always have people who pour cold water on you
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None of the friends who drank together didn’t come, but you took the time.” I asked him, “do you still like to join the fun so much in the future?” He shook his head: “such an impersonal Wine Bureau will never go again.” Old Joe has known me for many years
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If some parties disrupt your normal life, just refuse directly; If a friend brings you more pain than happiness, invite him out of his life
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Even Bill Gates, who has a wide range of busy people, should adhere to the “thinking week” twice a year
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Two days ago, my friend old Joe drank stomach bleeding in a liquor store and was rushed to the hospital
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With such a person, you are like falling into the mud, exhausted and splashed with mud
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In fact, they are just bragging and playing tricks; Some people are close to you at the party, but they can’t remember your name when they meet next time
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You can only say three words when you meet people, but you can’t give up all your heart
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You should spend more time reading, improving professional skills and meeting your customers
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Text: SONGFENG Source: reading at ten o’clock (ID: duhaoshu) 01 not all parties are worth attending
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They will not bring any benefits except adding several names to your address book
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She make complaints about your mood for several days, and make you feel bad
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That’s the case with some hypocritical friends
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The three views are different, and there is no need for strong integration
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He is also quite proud of himself, often boasting that he knows so and so boss and so and so tycoon
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There is a saying: a false friend is more terrible than an honest enemy
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He is a regular at all kinds of parties
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During this time, he would hide in a lake cabin, cut off all social networks, thank customers behind closed doors, and only use it to read and think and study the next decision
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Those who often hit you are not really good for you
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He says it smells disgusting; You talk a lot about your favorite movies, but he feels insipid..
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They don’t have the ability to be independent and don’t know how to be grateful
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Meaningless parties and wine Inns will only consume your energy and lower your quality of life
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Finally, she will add: I said this because I have a good relationship with you
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When they see a party, the Wine Bureau flocks to them for fear that they will be forgotten by others
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He is forthright and good at drinking
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You don’t have to be friends with everyone
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Do you mind? Remember, a good relationship is by no means a shield for “mouth poison”
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Some people call you brothers at the wine table
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It is most appropriate to call this low-quality social networking “junk social networking”
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The best contact is yourself
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Give up those useless social contacts and improve yourself, so that your world can be bigger
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